Monthly Archives: December 2016

Our Lady of Guadalupe

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I’ve told this story before, but I like it, so I’ll tell it again, especially since it is the 12th of December: the Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe. She is sacred to Latin America and especially to Mexico, and her iconic image is one we know well, especially in places like Lake Worth, where there is a strong Latin American influence. Here’s the first part of the story, which is the bigger world story: it begins in 1531 with Juan Diego, who was just a regular guy in Mexico. He saw an apparition of a woman on a hill near Mexico City, and she asked him to build a church in her honor there on the hill. She spoke to him in his native Nahuatl language and he recognized her, by the things she told him, as the Virgin Mary.

The image we know so well, even to this day, miraculously appeared inside Juan Diego’s cloak in December, 1531: on one of his visits to the hill, Mary told Juan Diego to go to the barren top of the hill, but when he got there, he found it not at all barren but awash with blooming Castilian roses. He and Mary gathered the roses and she arranged them inside his cloak. And on this, her feast day, Juan Diego opened his cloak before the bishop of Mexico City. When he did, the flowers all fell to the floor, revealing the image of the Virgin of Guadalupe, this same iconic image we all know so well. The church was built, and the image from Juan Diego’s cloak, or tilma, hangs still inside the Basilica of Our Lady of Guadalupe on Tepeyac Hill, Mexico City.

So that’s the first part of the story. The second part of the story is more personal. It is rare that we hold a memory of precisely what we were doing on any given day in our history, but I know exactly what I was doing on December 12, 2000. It was our first December in our little old home in Lake Worth, and Seth and I were at the table eating dinner when suddenly we heard the sound of fireworks exploding above us. We both dropped our forks and ran out the back door to look into the night sky and sure enough there were fireworks exploding in the sky to the south of our house, toward Downtown Lake Worth. Since this town we love has a large Mexican and Mayan population, and since it was the 12th of December, we decided there was only one explanation for the fireworks: there was a big festival going on downtown for the Feast Day of Our Lady of Guadalupe! We couldn’t contain our excitement. We didn’t even bother to clean up or finish dinner but instead hopped into the truck and headed downtown for the festivities. We drove to Bryant Park on the lagoon, but it was silent, and so were the grounds of Sacred Heart Church as well as the plaza off the City Hall Annex and none of the downtown streets were blocked off, either, for this wonderful festival that we had concocted in our own minds.

I had left the house that night all excited for the singing and dancing and for the food but also to run into the street vendor who would be selling the traditional painted tin ornaments from Mexico that I’d been longing for… but of course there was no festival and there were no ornaments. Nothing. The fireworks probably came from one very enthusiastic celebrant at a private home. So we drove back home, awash in disappointment (and I’m sure Seth was wondering who else but us would hear fireworks and come to this same conclusion).

But that night, with all its excitement and disappointment, was a seed that eventually bloomed into what we do now, for I decided that if I couldn’t find the traditional painted tin ornaments I wanted locally, I’d go out and find them where they came from. And that maybe other folks would want them, too. And so that Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe on the 12th of December at the tail end of the last century had a big effect on bringing you the Convivio Book of Days Catalog, where we sell traditional handicrafts pertaining to the seasonal round of the year, which evolved eventually into this blog and, hopefully, into the next logical step: a real book called The Convivio Book of Days that you can pull off your bookshelf to confer with when you wish, like an old friend. That’s the goal. Perhaps Our Lady of Guadalupe should be my patroness, too.

Image: A retablo depicting Our Lady of Guadalupe, painted by an anonymous artist in Mexico. Oil on tin, 19th century [Public domain] via Wikimedia Commons. Tomorrow, our attentions shift toward Italy and Scandinavia, but especially to Sweden, where in the dark hours of early morning young girls will don candle-lit wreaths on their heads, delivering saffron buns and coffee through the home. If you have a Swedish bakery nearby, today or tomorrow would be a fine day to stop by and pick up these golden S-shaped rolls. Here in the Lake Worth area, Polar Bakery is the place; they’re in the plaza at the northwest corner of Lantana Road and Congress Avenue in Lantana.

 

On Advent, St. Nicholas, and Speculaas

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Holiday confession time: When the Advent season arrives as early as it did this year, which basically stems from Christmas itself falling on a Sunday, I have a harder time than usual transitioning into the Christmas spirit. We’re already past the Second Sunday of Advent (it was yesterday) and still you’ll find dried corn hanging on our front door and orange lights strung on our bookcase. Though we’ve been opening the windows on our advent calendar, we had to catch up the first couple of days because we didn’t have a calendar chosen on the First. And life’s been so busy, Seth and I have ourselves quite a lot of catching up to do on our advent candles.

Ah, but tonight comes St. Nicholas’ Eve, and with this night, we welcome the first of the Midwinter gift bearers, wending his way through the midwinter darkness. Advent and Christmas suddenly seem more tangible, more real. On years like this, St. Nicholas serves as my reality check.

Although Santa Claus is a super big deal here in the States, and though we often call him Old St. Nick, the real St. Nicholas barely earns a blink of anyone’s eyes here. But there are other parts of the world, especially throughout Europe, where this is a very important night indeed. It is the Eve of St. Nicholas (St. Nicholas’s Day being tomorrow, the 6th of December), and children there will place their shoes by the chimney before going to bed in hopes that St. Nicholas will fill them with gifts. They’ll set out carrots and hay for his donkey.

In these overnight hours, the old bishop will make his rounds. Good children might wake up on St. Nicholas’ Day to find their shoes filled with fruits and nuts and sweets and small toys. But St. Nicholas does not wander alone; he travels tonight with a dark companion. The companion goes by many names, depending on the region––Knecht Ruprecht, Black Peter, Pelznickel… but he is best known as Krampus: half man, half goat, a bit terrifying… the punisher of children who have been naughty. These two are not as secretive as our American Santa. There are parades this time of year throughout Europe for St. Nicholas’ Day and Krampus pretty much steals the show at some of these parades, especially in parts of Germany, where tonight is known as Krampusnacht.

I love the time of the Midwinter gift bearers. Such a beautiful way to make the Midwinter darkness less… dark (despite Krampus). St. Nicholas will be followed over the next few weeks by the Christkindl, by Santa Lucia, by Father Christmas and Santa Claus, by los Tres Reyes (the Three Kings) and a kind old witch named Befana who will sweep away the remnants of the Christmas season in early January.

But that’s all a long ways away. For us tonight here in this little old house in Lake Worth, we will leave our shoes by the bed, which we always do. Our small old home has small old closets, and so we almost always have a couple of pairs of shoes outside the closet––there’s just no place in the closet to put them. I don’t know if St. Nicholas and Krampus will make their way this far from Europe, but chances are good that once we go to bed, Haden the Convivio shop cat will spend some time hunting down her little stuffed animal toys, carrying them about and making the odd cries that cats make once they have caught their quarry, and maybe tonight she will drop one of them into someone’s shoe, as she is wont to do so many nights. But before those magic overnight hours, we will brew ourselves some tea, or maybe some mulled wine, and we will for sure open a package of Steenstra’s St. Claus cookies. The cookies are speculaas, a type of Dutch cookie made for St. Nicholas’ Eve. They sell them all year long at the Publix bakery in a small cellophane-wrapped package. The cellophane is clear and the box inside is bright orange. The Steenstra family emigrated from the Netherlands to Michigan in 1926, and that’s where the cookies are still made, as they have been for about 90 years now. They taste of almond and warm spices like ginger and clove, and they depict five different scenes about St. Claus (more correctly about St. Nicholas of Myra, the kind fourth century bishop who gave gifts to the poor while they slept). There is St. Claus on a horse (a derivation of that donkey), a boy and a girl (because they like to receive presents from St. Claus), a rooster (because St. Claus starts his day at sunup), an owl (because St. Claus works til sundown), and a windmill (because St. Claus lives in a windmill). The first of the gift bearers gives us reason to celebrate tonight; we hope you’ll join us in that.

Image: Our Steenstra’s speculaas, ready to go. Just have to mull that wine now.

 

Your December Book of Days

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Now it is December, and here is your Convivio Book of Days calendar for the new month. It is a month of increasing darkness on the way toward old Midwinter, the longest night of the year. It is a month of preparation, of making our homes as fair as we are able, for Old Father Christmas is on the approach. We would do well to take our time, to appreciate each day of this last “ember” month of the year rather than rush headlong into the celebration on the horizon. Seth and I think of this as the Slow Christmas movement: appreciating the approach, the anticipation, the preparation, setting the stage for joy. This is what Advent is all about. Christmas will be here in due time and will bring with it twelve days of celebration, days that stand outside ordinary time in the wheel of the year. The ceremony of each day is what this blog, this story, is all about. This becomes especially true at this time of year.

Friday night, the Second of December, come see us at Social House in Downtown Lake Worth. It’s their 2nd Annual Holiday Maker Meet, and we’ll be there with our traditional handmade Christmas ornaments from Germany and Mexico, as well as our German Christmas pyramids and handmade daily Advent candles from England. It’s also the night of Lake Worth’s Christmas tree lighting, on the cultural plaza at the City Hall Annex, in view of Social House. It should be a lovely night. Please come by Social House and say hello! We’ll be there with many of our favorite local makers. 6:30 to 10 PM.