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Hallowe’en

And now tonight brings Hallowe’en. I’ve written a Convivio Dispatch for Hallowe’en and I’d love to share it with you. The Convivio Dispatch is a sister publication to the Convivio Book of Days… one that deals more with story and one that is not published as a blog but rather as a simple email, which arrives in your inbox without much fanfare. Subscribers to the Book of Days Blog do not necessarily receive the Dispatch (in fact, most do not––subscription rates for the Dispatch are much higher than they are for the Book of Days). All to say: If you’d like to be sure of receiving this year’s Convivio Dispatch for Hallowe’en, please do subscribe by clicking here. It’s free, and it’s my absolute pleasure to write these stories for you.

Happy Hallowe’en!
John

P.S. Your Convivio Book of Days calendar for November will be late! Here are important dates to keep in mind whilst you’re waiting for the next calendar page:
November 1: All Saints Day (All Hallows)
November 2: All Souls Day (Day of the Dead, Dia de Los Muertos)
November 11: Martinmas (St. Martin’s Day)… the conclusion of this time of remembrance known as Hallowtide (which begins tonight, with All Hallow’s Eve: Hallowe’en).

 

Spirited Times Await

If you, like me, enjoy tuning in to the mysterious nature of Hallowe’en, read on, for I’ve got two good things to offer you in the coming days: a live witching hour event on Zoom, and a spirited tale to read. (Oh, and a sale… so I guess that’s three good things!)

The CONVIVIO DISPATCH for HALLOWE’EN
First, the spirited tale. Before there was the Convivio Book of Days blog, there was the Convivio Dispatch from Lake Worth. I began the Dispatch, o so many years ago, as an email marketing tool… but soon realized that in that form it didn’t interest me all that much. And so instead of telling subscribers about things they could buy, I began writing about my neighbors. The Convivio Dispatch soon evolved into a vehicle for stories, most of them set here in Lake Worth, and mostly true. (I think of the Dispatch as an exercise in creative nonfiction; an analysis of past Dispatches has shown that approximately 80% of each is nonfiction. What remains is up to you to classify.)

Be that as it may, what you need to know is that the Convivio Dispatch is a whole other animal from this Convivio Book of Days blog, and that each autumn, I am given the honor of writing my favorite thing each year: the Convivio Dispatch for Hallowe’en. A spirited tale always, sometimes ghostly, sometimes just wrapped in mystery. I’ve been working on this year’s Dispatch for weeks now, and in the coming days, we approach Hallowe’en, and then it is time to send the Hallowe’en Dispatch out into the world. It arrives as a simple email in our subscribers’ inboxes. Simple. No website, nothing to click. You simply pour yourself a cup of coffee or brew a bit of Irish Breakfast (sweetened, with a touch of cream), then sit, open your email, and there it is.

This year’s Hallowe’en Dispatch revolves around a coin that Clarence, the Bridge Tender, found last month on one of his walks near the lagoon after September’s King Tides. My neighbor, Earl, is pretty certain it’s from the Santa Margarita, the legendary Spanish galleon that went down off our coast in a hurricane in 1595. She’s never been found, the Santa Margarita, but Earl has had some legendary experiences of his own involving the ship. So many mysteries, so close to home, yet this year’s Hallowe’en Dispatch takes you from my ancestral homeland in Southern Italy to Mexico, Manhattan, Lima, and points beyond (perhaps the Great Beyond).

To get the Convivio Dispatch for Hallowe’en, you’ll need to subscribe. It’s free, it’s easy. Subscribe by clicking here. The Dispatches are few and far between, I promise, so you won’t get a lot of clutter in your inbox, and of course you can always unsubscribe, too, just as easily.

BOOK ARTS 101: WITCHING HOUR
And now for that live Zoom event:  it’s my (mostly) weekly live chat about the book arts and craft and design with the Jaffe Center for Book Arts, usually on Wednesdays at 3 PM Eastern, but this week on Thursday evening at 8 PM Eastern. We’re looking at some of the spookier books in the Jaffe Collection, and it felt more proper to do this once night had fallen. We’re calling it Book Arts 101: Witching Hour, and to watch the live webinar, you’ll have to register ahead of time by clicking here (also quick and easy to do). Should you not be able to watch live at 8:00, video from the broadcast will be posted by Friday morning to the Jaffe Center’s Vimeo Channel.

These mysteries usher in a time of remembering our beloved dead––all who have come and gone before us. It’s a time I’ve always treasured, from when I was a little boy, and still do to this day. I hope you’ll join me on this journey from Hallowe’en to Martinmas, through the Dispatch and Book Arts 101, and through the Convivio Book of Days blog, too, as I share these stories and the ways my family keeps the channels open as we shift our thoughts toward winter.

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The photo above is of a house on Lakeside Road here in Lake Worth; one of many celebratory homes Seth and I found tonight as we walked home from downtown. I’d be remiss, too, not to mention that we are indeed running a sale right now at the Convivio Bookworks website. Typically this time of year you’ll find Convivio Bookworks at the local street fairs for Dia de Muertos in Lake Worth and Fort Lauderdale, but this year they both are canceled. So for now, an Autumn Sale to encourage you to stock up on the artisan goods you may want for the coming dark months: artesenias from Mexico for Dia de Muertos, advent calendars from Germany and advent candles from England, Christmas goods from Germany and Sweden and Italy. Here’s the deal: spend $75 and you’ll get $10 off your order plus free domestic shipping when you use the discount code STREETFAIR at checkout. That’s a savings of $18.50 in total. Or, as always, free domestic shipping when you spend $50 (no discount code required for that). Thank you for supporting small businesses and artisans––you are supporting real people and real families when you do, and your transactions really matter. Shop here now. We all really appreciate it.

 

Autumn Glow, or Your October Book of Days

We are well into autumn now. It is October, the Feast, today on this second day of the month, of the Guardian Angels, and this evening, with the setting sun, comes Sukkot in the Jewish calendar, a holiday known also as the Feast of Tabernacles. A lot of the holidays / holy days that are not in my own family’s tradition are things I experience peripherally, and this is the case with Sukkot, which I associate with citrus. In particular, it is the fruit called etrog that is part of the Sukkot holiday. It is a very thick skinned citrus with an intoxicating fragrance. I’ve only ever held one etrog, but the experience stuck with me, for scent is a great portal to memory, is it not?

And so this year this is how October begins, with angels and intoxicating fragrance. It is for us a time of birthdays, too: Seth’s birthday was on the 30th of September, and my mom, she turns 94 today on the 2nd. At least we think so. We always celebrated on the 3rd, but a few years ago documentation surfaced that suggested we’d been celebrating on the wrong day and that Mom was actually born on the 2nd. And yet stories persist that really support the idea that she was born on the 3rd, for her middle name is Rosaria, bestowed upon her because she was born on the Feast of the Madonna del Rosario… which is on the 7th, but is often moved to the First Sunday of October, and in 1926, guess what? The First Sunday of October was on the 3rd. Anyway, our policy now is pretty much to just celebrate both days. Things were no different with her father: we celebrated Grandpa’s birthday on the 23rd of November forever, but looking back at records, the 21st may have been more accurate. So. What can you do? Perhaps there are benefits to a nonchalant approach to things like birthdays.

Be that as it may, I am here today mainly to bestow our monthly gift upon you: it’s the Convivio Book of Days calendar, this time for October. Cover star: the beautiful barns at Chosen Land, the Sabbathday Lake Shaker Community in Maine, with a maple in the foreground, glowing golden. Appropriate for so many reasons: 1) no place does autumn quite like New England; 2) Seth and I were visiting Chosen Land this very time of year two Octobers ago (and that’s when I snapped that photo); and 3) it is the month of Hallowe’en, a most spirited time of year, and I don’t think I know of any place that is so attuned to the spirits of those who have come and gone quite so much as Chosen Land. The Shakers were and are very welcoming to the idea that the spirit world is quite adjacent to the physical world, and mysteries run deep there. These are the things Seth and I like to tap into as this beautiful month unfolds and as we approach Hallowe’en at its close… which ushers in all the Days of the Dead that follow, through early November, to Martinmas on the 11th. The calendar will serve as a good companion to this blog, and to the annual Convivio Hallowe’en Dispatch from Lake Worth… and if you’d like to receive that story, please subscribe here. (The Convivio Dispatch is a whole other animal from the Convivio Book of Days Blog; it is a very occasional newsletter… but more often than not it’s not a newsletter at all and most definitely more of a story––essentially it is me, writing creative nonfiction.) If you don’t get it in your inbox already… well, I do think you’ll like getting it.

IN THE SHOP
October comes and we are closer to the height of our red letter days in the wheel of the year, the ones that brighten the darkness: Dia de Muertos (Day of the Dead), and Advent, the precursor to Christmas. We heartily believe in the value of both: of remembering those who came before and keeping those channels open, and of a slow approach to Christmas. Please take a look, if you will, by clicking here. You’ll see pages devoted just to Dia de Muertos and to Advent, and to lots of other things… oh, and that’s my mom you’ll see there, the birthday girl herself, at the top of the page, fishing from a row boat, circa 1950.

Our very best wishes to you this golden October and these autumnal days. Please stay safe, please stay well, please treat each other as you would hope to be treated. Much love involved.